WHY CAN'T MEN AND WOMEN HAVE SERIOUS , INTELLIGENT CONVERSATIONS ?

Since Recently ,

Men and women can’t have a decent , intellectual or serious conversation without women being sexualized. What ,  however men seem to forget is that women are not only bodies , not just tits and ass and a cute face and a vagina , women also possess brains .It’s not ‘she’s trying to act smarter than you’ it’s just a simple conversation and if you feel that she’s demeaning you by bringing up valid points to counter your argument , then you as a man have a problem . I understand sex is the main topic of the world but it also gets boring and tired and played out after a while .Sometimes it is refreshing to talk about other things .And your inability to function on any other topic besides sex shows a lot .

Open your mind , broaden your views , the world isn’t just about sex , it is of the world ,not the world .

Yes women do it too , and some women have led us into this position . But stop defining women only by their bodies , stop belittling women by thinking the only thing they serve for is just an object , or a pretty picture to look at and to hold .Don’t you want more than just a empty vase ?

Why is it that as a woman starts having a conversation with a male the first thing they start to do is try to belittle them ? They start getting super defensive and they get a nasty attitude .Men are leaders not bullies .

So women educate yourself , read a book , watch something educational or inspirational once in awhile . Their shouldn’t be a reason why every conversation men and women have should end up in a quarrel . And yes there are women who are so proud to be intelligent that they use it to belittle men in conversations . They feel they have a point to prove .That it’s a gender war .

Let’s have a conversation about something new , inspire me , surprise me . Let me know I can invite you to a formal event and you can hold a conversation even if it’s talking about the weather .

Because at the end of the day a conversation is a way in which we communicate and without communication all fails . Build your conversational skills and topics , stop belittling women , because you might be surprised ,you might just learn something .

Women if you listened once in a while you would learn something from men too . Educate yourself .

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY

International women’s day is celebrated on the 8th of March every year .It is to celebrate the achievement women have made in this world , economically , socially , politically etc .Also it is a day in which women are appreciated and are taught to be proud of their gender  .

So to all the beautiful , hard working and inspiring  women out there .Happy International Women’s Day !!!

ATTEMPTED RAPE AND MURDER OF TURKISH UNIVERSITY STUDENT

Since Recently,

  I woke up to the news , it was one of the first things I had seen when I woke up .My heart broke , and I cried .The horrific news that a woman like myself was murdered , that every year around 300 women are murdered in turkey by men and atleast a hundred raped and some of the rest killed by husbands .Everyday atmost 5 women are killed in Turkey.


                                        
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    Ozgecan Aslan a University student studying psychology , 19 years old ,  would be 20 years old October 22 was traveling on a minibus with a friend home . The friend came off the bus and she was the only passenger left on board . It is reported the minibus driver attempted to rape her and she fought him off with pepper spray . He then stabbed her multiple times ,then beat her to death with an iron rod .
 He got the help of his father and friend who burned the body and chopped of the hands so that DNA under the finger nails would not connect him to the murder .
Women and men are protesting in Turkey ,that the harshest punishment be brought against these men . In a society dominated by men these crimes are not seen as crimes by many . They blame it on the women saying that they should be conservative and therefore they deserve the violence . When is  violence against women warranted because of the way they dress ? Because they donot conform or fit the ideals set by men for them .
Women who even meet the criteria are still murdered .
What are we ?
Who are we ?
We think we have moved forward , that we have advanced as a people and then this happens .Shows us we have not advanced just evolved and not for the better .
A beautiful girl was killed , a mother is still waiting for her daughter to come home , a father will never see his daughter again, never marry her , and a mother was working to send her daughter to University ...
I feel like a sister of mine who I have known for years has died .
Her mother and people , family are protesting that the full force of the law be brought against the man for such a vicious act.
 A woman was stabbed and beaten to death after almost being raped .
What kind of man does this ? with no remorse ?
We can only hope justice is brought against these men , against the man that killed her .
I pray for her family because for you there probably will be no comfort and I pray for the other women who are sacrificed everyday .
Do something ...not tomorrow , but today , not later but now .
This is what has been happening since recently .